Relationships have been clear anarchist territory since Emma Goldman and Voltairine DeCleyre explicitly rejected monogamy and marriage. But while polyamory may be a popular alternative, it is – by definition – not simple, especially when we recognize the ways that it is coherent with exactly what is expected of us (for example, stereotypical male sexual behavior). This pamphlet has one reprint of a three person conversation from Anarchy: a journal of desire armed printed many years ago, a new conversation in 2008 between a different trio of poly people, and a modified version of one of the better online polyamory FAQs.